A very alarming news in the world of education, it needs serious attention and treatment that all this does not happen again. Cultural conflict between students in Indonesia is getting worse. In the past month more or less students there are 6 people who died in vain due to fighting between students. Not only students are often fought, but also a fight between communities.
These bad habits ingrained in the minds of some students. It was difficult to cut the chain of this fight. Concern because they actually proud to be an alumnus of the school who are involved in a fight between students. The mindset of students who are less good at making them easily influenced, coupled with unfavorable atmospheric environment, families often noisier, less good friends, friends hanging out too poorly. Thus indirectly shape the mindset of students who like to fight
When I was in junior vocational schools, I have also been involved in a fight between students. most of my friends are very happy to join in the fight. ” They say you have to take this fight, but you have to win to avoid embarrassing the school, because the school we always win if the fight”. They also provide school uniforms for street children to join the resistance. Aiming to win and make them proud to be a student of the school who wins the fight
Before leaving they asked brawl allowance per student in schools for capital, including myself also taxable. Thank God that time the police arrive early so that the fight does not happen. They ran away terrified, because many are subject to police raids. I also ran and hiding in mosques. Since then I never want to again participate in any brawl
From my brief experience in fighting between students, I conclude that the solution to the culture violence and fighting between students in Indonesia is; The first back in the family, because the child will imitate directly the attitudes and behavior of family. So if we want our children good attitudes, behaviors and thought patterns that give a good example to our children. Practice in their daily lives not only in theory.
controling the second, they were still unstable like to try things that are new. So we as parents should always keep an eye on them. Not that we should always follow where he goes. But we are ready to take control of friends hanging out, hangout, their activities, etc.. From there we can judge good and bad, and straighten the child if it starts off.
The three schools, most of which joined the fight was no activity or something else to do besides school. So they are looking for activities outside of school fatherly fill time. Then the school should be able to facilitate a range of activities outside the school to occupy their high value makes them interested and hard to leave them. Example: football, badminton, boxing, there are also Rohis, LDK, KAMMI etc.
last to students throughout Indonesia, only one of us is unique in the world. Yourself no copies, each of which is rare is expensive, it is expensive you yourself do not consider cheap. Life is like a trip up the mountain like a future youth provision in the legs then the stock air properly, do not waste your life wasted. Plants that thrive in good soil, then choose the environment, a good friend that you grow up to be a good person too. Remember the state today due to the act yesterday, the state of the old days-inflicted youth, modest. whether willingly die in vain in a fight between students. Remember when you die, people talk about you is the fruit of your actions during life. Be the best do the best get the best. Thank you .. may be useful ..
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